Safest

BLACK/WHITE check

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• Black/White check (alt. safety pin) originated during the 80s AIDS crisis, for obvious reasons. Flagging Black/White check means you’re in for a night of wholesome play, which doesn’t mean the play is soft, rather that the safest possible option is taken (and fluids aren’t exchanged). Many fluid-bonders choose to play outside a fluid bonding circle/chain with the following activities.

 

Talk

GREEN, Light

dirty talk

dirty talk

Watch

	VELVET, WHITE	voyeur	will put on a show
	VELVET, BLACK	has/takes videos	will perform for the camera
	VELVET, NAVY	watches masturbation	will masturbate for audience

Non-genital touching

	BLANKET	seeking massage	masseuse
	MAUVE	worship my navel	has a navel fetish
	PINK, Dark	worship my tits	tit worshipper

	MAGENTA	suck my pits	armpit lover
	CORAL	suck my toes	shrimper (sucks toes)

Teddy Bear

cuddler

cuddlee

• Skin to skin non-genital contact still harbours the following risks: scabies, crabs (body lice), armpit fungus.

Kissing

BLACK/WHITE stripes

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kissing

• saliva exchanging risks: herpes, syphilis.

 

With Barriers (Gloves/Dams/Condoms)

Possible risks even with barrier use: HPV, BV, TV, thrush, herpes, hep B, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis (because they can be transferred by skin to skin contact).

	WHITE	jerk me off	I’ll do us both
	BLUE, Robin’s Egg	69	69
	BLUE, Light	gives oral	wants oral
———	BLUE, Light w/ light PINK stripe	sucks dildo	suck my dildo
	BLUE, Navy	fucking / TOP	fucking / BOTTOM
	RED, Dark	2-handed fister	2-handed fistee
	RED	fist fucker	fist fuckee
	PINK, Light	dildo wielder	dildo fuckee
	BEIGE	rimmer	rim me

• see Effective barrier use

Our complete safer sex guide is here.

Switch kitty.

Introducing our new mascot: Switch kitty.

This sadomasochistic feline likes biting (houndstooth, left), feet (coral, right), bleeding (maroon, right) and watching (white velvet, right). What does your pet like?

Introducing our new mascot: Switch kitty.